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My New Book

New York Times Bestseller!

Healing and thriving after or even during a narcissistic relationship can be challenging, but it is possible.

It’s Not You shows that the first step is to stop trying to change the narcissistic person, stop blaming yourself, and start giving yourself permission to foster your autonomy and sense of self outside of this relationship.

Available now!

9 Hour Speaker Series:

Healing and Thriving after Narcissistic Abuse: The Many Voices Dr. Ramani sits down with experts and survivors including:

- Matthew Hussey
- Kimberly Shannon Murphy
- Jen Faison
- Tina Swithin
- Mark Vicente
- Whitney Goodman
- Dr. Ingrid Clayton
- Dr. W. Keith Campbell
- Dr. Janja Lalich

My Healing Program

It’s difficult to get help and support when you are in or out of a narcissistic relationship. Many people don’t have a place to get support, tools for healing, and to meet other survivors. This program is meant to be that safe space - a place to learn you are not alone, break the cycles of self-blame, and to explore your authentic self.

My Program for Therapists

Working with clients experiencing antagonistic relationships can feel like uncharted territory, and therapists and coaches in this space need support, emerging information, theoretical frameworks and community as we navigate this clinical focus.

These clients are often woefully underserved and many clinicians and coaches want more resources for this work.

It is my hope that this program will give you a professional home to turn to as you do this rewarding and challenging work.

Dr. Ramani Durvasula

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